Meeting a stranger as a friend for the first time: how to do it safely?
Short answer: pick a busy public place, preferably in daylight, tell someone you trust, get there and back on your own, and leave whenever you want. Here are 6 simple rules, and how it works on Rent a BFF.
Blog · Updated on 12 November 2026
6 rules for a safe first meetup
- A busy public place: a café, a park, a market, a museum. Never someone's home for a first meeting.
- Daytime if possible, or a time when there are still people around.
- Tell someone you trust: say where you are going, with whom and when you expect to be back. A quick message is enough.
- Arrive and leave on your own: don't get into the other person's car, and keep your phone charged.
- Keep chatting on the site's messaging at first: don't share your address or personal contact details until you feel comfortable.
- Trust your instincts: if something feels off, you can cut the meetup short or leave, without having to explain.
How it works on Rent a BFF
On Rent a BFF the meetup is strictly friendly and platonic, in a public place. You pick a profile and send a request, and if the BFF accepts you pay a 15% booking fee online. The BFF's hourly rate is paid directly to them, in person. Check the profile: some show an "identity verified" label. Free cancellation up to 24 hours before, with the fee refunded. More on the safety page.
What it is not
Rent a BFF is not a dating site, and these rules don't replace your own judgment. If you are in danger, call the emergency services of your country. For prices, see how much does it cost to rent a friend.
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