Renting a friend to ease loneliness: does it really work?
Feeling lonely affects far more people than you might think. Here is why occasional, verified company can really help, and who it is for.
Blog · Updated on 23 October 2026
At any age
loneliness does not only affect seniors
Rule no. 1
strictly platonic meetings
Zero pressure
no commitment, by the hour only
A more widespread problem than you might imagine
Loneliness is not a marginal issue in France: studies published every year by the Fondation de France show that it affects a significant share of the population, across all generations. It is not limited to older people: young workers who move for their job, remote workers who lose the social contact of the office, and newcomers to a city are particularly affected.
Why renting a friend can really help
Making friends takes time, repeated opportunities and the right context, exactly what is most lacking when you are isolated. Booking a BFF meets an immediate, concrete need: having someone across the table for a coffee, a walk in a new neighbourhood or an outing, without waiting to meet someone by chance. It is not a substitute for lasting relationships, but an accessible first step to break isolation and get back into the habit of going out and talking to people.
Who it is for, in practice
- Newcomers to a city who do not have a social network yet.
- Remote workers whose everyday social contact has disappeared.
- Seniors whose loved ones live far away, or who lost their circle after a move or the death of a partner.
- People who would like company at a wedding or an event, an exhibition or an outing, without feeling alone.
What it is not
Rent a BFF is not a dating site or a romantic companionship agency. The company offered is strictly friendly and platonic, framed by clear rules from sign-up. That clarity is what makes it comfortable: everyone knows what to expect, with no ambiguity about intentions. See also: is renting a friend legal in France and our complete guide to renting a friend.
How to try it without pressure
Members do not need any subscription. Browse the profiles published near you, choose a simple activity (a coffee is enough), and ask for just one hour to see if it suits you.
Rent a BFF is not a medical service or psychological support. If you are struggling over a long period, it is important to talk to a health professional or a dedicated listening service, alongside any occasional social contact.
Find a BFF near you
Browse the published profiles and send your first meeting request, with no commitment.